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Wish you the best of luck Eff... But I believe we've heard this song before. You gotta stick with it this time. BElieve me, It's a hard thing to walk around from the people that bring you down. I call them "Cancers", and I've walked away from many... including family.
Just remember, Misery loves company.
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glad to hear it eff, hope you can stick at it this time fella. best of luck to ya
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Good luck, Eff. It's tough to stay away from a bad crowd (one of the reasons I moved from Vancouver to Toronto), but in 5 or 10 years when some of them are in real trouble you'll be very glad you did.
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Good luck Effel.
My mobile contract ended last night and I've managed to spend a whole day without a mobile for the first time in over ten years. It has been weird.
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Aye, thanks. It hit me pretty bad when i realised as much as my friends 'look after' one another, we dont help each other at all. Gonna have to basically sink off the map, may try go see somne family up in brum for a few months.
Then again, same problem, different area.
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It's hard and they may end up not being best pleased but you gotta do it if you want a future.
Simple as that.
Don't seem like your friends are heading any place good.
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Majorirty of them arent. Wonderful people like,lovee them to bits. But hardly ever on the same level.
Weird though, been speaking to a girl who i've encountered but never got to know, and it seems her mhead is writhing with the exact same thirst for knowledge as mine.
Fit as well, so thats a bonus.
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Grab hold of her and run.
I ain't inflating your balloon any more than I have before, you know the deal, wisdom and abilities beyond your years, use 'em, get a job, get some more training, start a business, get a place.
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Cheers mate, more or less the plan.
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(19-02-09, 02:33 AM)mr.pure Wrote: Grab hold of her and run.
I ain't inflating your balloon any more than I have before, you know the deal, wisdom and abilities beyond your years, use 'em, get a job, get some more training, start a business, get a place.
Word is bond, Jewellry Man speaketh the truth. Don't let it take a spell or two up in The Big House to make you see the light, that shit will have repurcussions beyond what you can imagine, trust.
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Vicious circle, i know. cant get a job cause of being prison, cant get money so revert to crime, end u in prison again.
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Eff, it's all sterling advice mate, the vicious circle is a bitch, but can be broken.
I have a brother who lives London ways and i've only been able to get to know him for less than half his life because he's spent so much time in and out of prison. In the past 10 years i've only managed to see him on the outside about 3 times. Although, moving away from his area, settling down with a good lady and finding half decent work has kept him out of prison now for the longest i've known.
Dont get me wrong he struggled for work because of the exact reason you've mentioned but he kept searching and he's doing alright now.
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(18-02-09, 02:27 AM)Effel Wrote: With the assistance of an old chum, i think ive had an epiphany.
I've learned that one of the hardest things in life is recognising that you've had one and then taking heed from it.
See? All you noobies, on this board it ain't just Superstar advice we offer but worldly wisdom as well.
fc or is it Confucius
'All sins tend to be addictive and the terminal point of addiction is damnation.' - W H Auden
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word! we're a worldly bunch here at SSDB!
Today I have been unloading a delivery of some of New Era's new collection, fits and apparel, some seriously ill garms! mentally I've spent major £!
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