[seasidewolf]

It definitely is a flawed system. Those sellers are waiting to leave feedback after you pay as a means to threaten you. I bought a game the other month that was supposed to be mint, but it had tons of scratches on it. After the seller was unresponsive about giving me a refund/return, I said that if he didn't respond I was going to leave negative feedback.

He turned around and told me that if I did he was going to give me negative. What the hell did I do? I received a poor product. It is good in a sense that sellers can't leave negative--then again it sucks because what happens if the buyer is terrible...ehh tough problem.

Wait until day 90, before leaving feedback, by the time he notices it maybe too late!