13-02-14, 11:32 AM
Right, Brad is talking about me. He asked me why I was selling my shoes, I replied because we are in a desperate state of affairs and I have had no income for 6 months, he asked to do a trade for some of his work, the shoes were too tight and at this stage he seemed like a nice guy, I wanted him to have the shoes. I explained that I had no income and didn't know when I would and had no idea when I would be able to send them, this he accepted. I cleaned both pairs and boxed them up. I was desperate to get them sent out, however, we are struggling through severe poverty, me and sarah just eat once a day to make sure the kids and grandkids are looked after, we have learned how to get 4 meals out of a small chicken, poverty creates invention. Now, ani33 was very persistent, messaging me at least once a day, I was incredibly open and honest about my situation and how utterly and completely desperate I was to send them out and stop the incessant pestering. I have put loads more of my shoes up for sale hoping to raise the postage fee, however, when you have to choose between feeding your children or sending someone some shoes, I am sorry to say the kids food came first. ani33 was well aware of this. The final straw for me came when I started to receive threats and death wishes, I chose to ignore these delightful messages over last weekend, I wanted 2 days off from having to read his messages and instead of showing patience, compassion and understanding I received a message hoping I would have a drug overdose, then he started sending vulgar messages to my Sarah. The line was crossed. At this point I decided that this kind of person didn't deserve such a great deal, I considered someone of that nature would be better suited wearing Nike, none of my adidas family would be so heartless. I have sent back his pictures and I consider the matter closed (the pictures I thought would look nice in my boys bedroom), now they would just remind me of a nasty little man I had the unfortunate displeasure of meeting. I am truly sorry things turned out as they did, it was certainly not my intention. It was however a lesson learned. Also, this is nothing to do with the SSDB, this was all conducted on Facebook, this was another threat I received, that he would be naming and shaming me on here, unfortunately for him I have lived my entire life in a perpetual state of shame, so ani33 your toxic shame can't hurt me, I feel really sorry for you, your anger and rage, impatience and lack of compassion must be difficult to live with, maybe you could get some help for that. Your shitty pictures will be back with you shortly, I hope you can find another mug like me to fob them off too. And I would really love to meet you one day to sort this out like adults. Finally, I am really sorry to the SSDB members that this nonsense has been aired on here, I find it quite heartbreaking that someone would air my dirty laundry on here.